{"id":235771,"date":"2022-07-14T08:32:03","date_gmt":"2022-07-14T06:32:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nenasilje.org\/introduction-to-peacebuilding-mir-paqe-%d0%bc%d0%b8%d1%80-2022\/"},"modified":"2022-11-18T09:20:02","modified_gmt":"2022-11-18T08:20:02","slug":"introduction-to-peacebuilding-mir-paqe-%d0%bc%d0%b8%d1%80-2022","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nenasilje.org\/en\/introduction-to-peacebuilding-mir-paqe-%d0%bc%d0%b8%d1%80-2022\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cIntroduction to Peacebuilding\u201d, Mir-Paqe-\u041c\u0438\u0440 2022"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The sixth trilingual \u201cMir-Paqe-\u041c\u0438\u0440\u201d peacebuilding training was held from 13 to 22 May in Veles, North Macedonia. This was the first training we managed to organise for participants from multiple countries since the Covid 19 pandemic.<\/p>\n<p>The training brought together 16 participants from Serbia, Kosovo and North Macedonia.<\/p>\n<p>The participants came from Mitrovica, Lipljan, Podujevo, \u0160trpac, Pristina, Uro\u0161evac, Prizren, Bitola, Skopje, Prilep, Ohrid, Pre\u0161evo, Kragujevac, Novi Sad, Ljubljana (economic migrant from Serbia).<\/p>\n<h3>Questioning Narratives and Myths<\/h3>\n<p>The training started with an introduction and getting to know each other and tackled the topics of communication and teamwork, violence, discrimination, identity, gender roles in society, dealing with the past and peacebuilding.<\/p>\n<p>The topics that left the deepest impression on the participants were discrimination and violence. An exercise that elicited valuable content started with the question:\u00a0 \u201cWhat would need to change where my people are the majority in order to have a fair attitude to the past and take a step towards reconciliation?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Many topics and questions discussed at the training are taboos in our societies, they are not spoken about, not even in the most intimate circles. \u201cOthers\u201d are viewed as enemies and there is little room for examining the roots of such attitudes.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cNatural Albania, Unified Macedonia and Greater Serbia, what is the difference between these terms,\u201d asked one of the training participants, while another expressed fear about what the future would bring, because in the past, problems in the Balkans always led to war.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>The workshop on dealing with the past saw the most heated reactions when we discussed heroes in our societies, what they mean to us personally, what kinds of social relations are fostered based on the figures and acts that are glorified. An important link was made with our own roles and how others see us, based on various identities \u2013 this was also discussed at the training.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cI am bothered that in another place, they see me as some kind of terrorist, but I\u2019m too scared to even kill a chicken,\u201d said one participant frankly when talking about collective identities and how we are viewed through them, how some don\u2019t see us as simply people, like them, but as collectives.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>In order to recognise each other\u2019s humanity, we have to meet, we have to put a face to our narratives, humanise them \u2013 this was said at one of the workshops, but it is not a conclusion, it marks the beginning of work that has to be done to deconstruct collective images and prejudices that we have about other peoples, as well as myths we foster about our own identities.<\/p>\n<p>Together, we watched the CNA produced documentary \u201cIntermittent Line\u201d about the Macedonian-Albanian conflict from 2001 in order to start thinking about what conflicts bring and what kinds of legacies they leave for the future, but also about how important it is to make room for talking about our needs and our grievances.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cWounds have to be laid bare in order to heal,\u201d said one participant.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>We are also glad we decided to do a workshop on gender roles in society, because there is a tendency across the whole region of regressing into stricter patriarchal frameworks. Or fetters.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_235360\" style=\"width: 2570px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><a href=\"https:\/\/nenasilje.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/20220520_NNV_67639-scaled.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-235360\" class=\"wp-image-235360 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/nenasilje.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/20220520_NNV_67639-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1708\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nenasilje.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/20220520_NNV_67639-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/nenasilje.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/20220520_NNV_67639-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/nenasilje.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/20220520_NNV_67639-980x654.jpg 980w, https:\/\/nenasilje.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/20220520_NNV_67639-480x320.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 980px) 980px, (min-width: 981px) and (max-width: 1280px) 1280px, (min-width: 1281px) 2560px, 100vw\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-235360\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">ANA<\/p><\/div>\n<h3>Trust Builds Peace<\/h3>\n<p>Processes in our societies and the topics imposed by daily headlines also affected the activities and content of the training. With a war raging close by, it is difficult to talk about peaceful conflict resolution. Despite all these difficulties, we are glad that we had a chance to work with a very motivated group of people, prepared to get involved and support peace activities in their communities.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>\u201cI am troubled by the amount of hatred between countries in the Balkans. Debate and reconciliation in the Balkans should start from ordinary citizens, from us here. Each of us will come away with at least one more positive thought than what we had when we came. Politics does not represent us as individuals, but as peoples. To change politics, we first have to change ourselves,\u201d said one participant at the training.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>The training team concluded that it is very important to maintain this programme as the only peace training in the region conducted in three different languages, despite the difficulties we had with the organisation (uneven number of applicants from different countries, many cancellations).<\/p>\n<p>Naile Ke\u00e7mezi and Luljeta Ademi were the interpreters at this training.<\/p>\n<p>The training team comprised Luan Imeri (Centre for Human Rights and Conflict Resolution, Skopje), Boro Kitanoski (Peace Action, Prilep \u2013 Tetovo), Ana Bitoljanu (First Children\u2019s Embassy in the World Megjashi, Skopje), Nenad Vukosavljevi\u0107\u00a0 and Katarina Mili\u0107evi\u0107 (Centre for Nonviolent Action, Sarajevo \u2013 Belgrade).<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/nenasilje.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/20220516_NNV_67361-scaled.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-235344 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/nenasilje.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/20220516_NNV_67361-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1708\" srcset=\"https:\/\/nenasilje.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/20220516_NNV_67361-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/nenasilje.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/20220516_NNV_67361-1280x854.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/nenasilje.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/20220516_NNV_67361-980x654.jpg 980w, https:\/\/nenasilje.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/20220516_NNV_67361-480x320.jpg 480w\" sizes=\"(min-width: 0px) and (max-width: 480px) 480px, (min-width: 481px) and (max-width: 980px) 980px, (min-width: 981px) and (max-width: 1280px) 1280px, (min-width: 1281px) 2560px, 100vw\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The photo gallery is available <a href=\"\/?page_id=235369\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">HERE<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Many topics and questions discussed at the training are taboos in our societies, they are not spoken about, not even in the most intimate circles<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":37,"featured_media":235364,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[39,2458,45],"tags":[311,145,2323,316,2596,2402,315,304,143,147,1552],"class_list":["post-235771","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-activities","category-mir-paqe--en","category-training","tag-activism","tag-dealing-with-the-past","tag-kosovo-eng","tag-nonviolence","tag-north-macedonia","tag-paqe-en","tag-peace-education","tag-peacebuilding","tag-responsibility","tag-serbia","tag-training"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/nenasilje.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/235771","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/nenasilje.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/nenasilje.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nenasilje.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/37"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nenasilje.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=235771"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/nenasilje.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/235771\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":236426,"href":"https:\/\/nenasilje.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/235771\/revisions\/236426"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nenasilje.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/235364"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/nenasilje.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=235771"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nenasilje.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=235771"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/nenasilje.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=235771"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}